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Why You’re Waking Up at 3AM in Perimenopause (and What to Do About It)

Raise your hand if your sleep used to be... well, normal-ish.

You’d go to bed, sleep through (more or less), and wake up ready-ish to face the day. But now? Somewhere in your 40s, sleep flipped the script. You wake up at 3am wide-eyed, your brain is running a full-blown mental PowerPoint presentation, and you're wondering: “Is this just how it’s going to be from now on?”

Friend, I see you. I am you.

This week on the podcast, I had the absolute joy of welcoming my friend and colleague Shonda Palmer, founder of Shonda Palmer Wellness. She’s a national board-certified health and wellness coach, a mindfulness teacher, and a total powerhouse when it comes to helping women in midlife finally get the rest they need. She’s coached thousands of women using CBT-I (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia) — and she joined me to unpack why sleep becomes so elusive in perimenopau...

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When Your Get-Up-and-Go... Got Up and Left

Let me ask you something, friend: have you ever looked at your walking shoes, your protein shake, or even just your meal prep plan and thought, "I just don’t have it in me"?

Yeah. Me too.

And I’m not just talking about being tired—I’m talking about that whole-body, brain-fogged, soul-deep lack of drive that shows up like an unwelcome guest in perimenopause and menopause. It’s not that you don’t care. It’s that your hormones have started rewriting the rules without telling you.

Even as a certified personal trainer, Trim Healthy Mama coach, and menopause fitness specialist, I wasn’t immune. My motivation fell off a cliff. And I had to learn how to keep showing up anyway. Not perfectly. But consistently. And most of all—with grace.

So today, I want to talk to you about why this happens, what’s really going on, and how to work with your body—not against it—in this new season.

Hormones, Motivation, ...

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From Hormone Imbalance to Breakthrough: Coach KJ's Inspiring Journey with Trim Healthy Mama

If you’re a midlife woman struggling with weight loss, brain fog, and those rollercoaster hormones, grab your favorite sipper and settle in because you are not alone. Today’s post is a special one, and I can't wait for you to hear it.

I had the pleasure of chatting with my friend and fellow Trim Healthy Mama coach, KJ York. Her story is powerful, real, and full of hope. KJ’s journey from battling food addiction and hormone imbalance to finding freedom and purpose is one you need to hear. She opens up about her struggles, her faith, and the practical strategies that helped her overcome the roadblocks that so many of us face in midlife.

So if you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or just plain tired of trying to get it right—this post is for you. L...

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Struggling with Weight Loss in Midlife? Fiber is Your Secret Weapon!

Are you frustrated at how difficult it’s become to lose weight in midlife? Maybe the scale isn’t budging despite doing everything “right.” Or worse, you’re gaining weight without changing a thing. Sound familiar? The secret weapon you may be missing is fiber—and today, I’m going to show you why it’s a game-changer for your metabolism, gut health, and hormone balance.

Why Fiber is the Queen of Midlife Nutrition

I like to talk about how protein is the king of weight loss and muscle maintenance, but I think of fiber as the queen—especially for women in menopause or perimenopause. As our hormones shift, our bodies respond differently to food, stress, and exercise. Our gut microbiome changes, cortisol and insulin levels fluctuate, and suddenly, what used to work no longer does.

That’s where fiber comes in! 

Here’s why every midlife woman needs to prioritize fiber daily:

• Suppor...

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Finding a Weight Loss Plan That Works in Midlife

If you've been struggling with unexplained weight gain, stubborn belly fat, and the frustration of doing everything right but still not seeing results, Barb's story is going to inspire you.

At 58 years old, Barb had been following Trim Healthy Mama (THM) for over a decade. It had completely transformed her health, helping her lose 40 pounds and keep it off for years. But when menopause hit, the weight started creeping back on. Sound familiar? No matter how closely she followed THM, she found herself gaining weight, feeling discouraged, and unsure of what to do next.

The Midlife Weight Gain Struggle

Barb's story is one I hear all the time from women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. You’ve been eating well, staying active, and following the principles of THM, but your body is no longer responding the way it used to. 

Here’s what Barb experienced:

• Sudden weight gain despite staying on plan
• Fatigue an...

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Feeling Stuck? Why Midlife Weight Loss Feels So Hard

If you're a woman in midlife struggling with excess weight, particularly that stubborn belly fat, you're not alone. Maybe you've tried every diet under the sun, followed all the "expert" advice, and yet nothing seems to work the way it used to. I get it.

There is so much diet noise out there—one expert says cut carbs, another says eat all the fat, and someone else swears by intermittent fasting. But what actually works for midlife women? What will help you lose weight without wrecking your metabolism or hormones in the process? Let's break it down.

Why Extreme Diets Don’t Work for Midlife Women

You might have lost weight easily in your 20s and 30s with extreme diets—low-fat, keto, fasting, whatever the trend was at the time. But now? Your body has changed, and so has what it needs.

Here’s why extreme diets backfire in midlife:

• They stress your hormones – Cutting out entire food groups or d...

Are you doing all the things and still not losing weight? 

You’re not alone.

For many women, what worked in their 30s and early 40s just doesn’t cut it anymore.

If you’re in midlife and struggling with weight gain or slow weight loss, let’s talk about why it happens and, more importantly, what you can do to turn things around.

Why Is Weight Loss Harder During Menopause?

1. Hormonal Shifts

One of the biggest reasons weight loss feels harder in menopause is the decline of estrogen. Lower estrogen levels directly impact how and where your body stores fat, particularly in the abdominal area.

Estrogen also plays a role in regulating insulin sensitivity. As it declines, blood sugar levels fluctuate more easily, leading to increased fat storage. Add rising cortisol levels from stress, and it’s no wonder your body feels out of balance.

2. Muscle Loss and Metabolism

Starting in your 40s, you naturally lose muscle mass if you’re not actively maintaining it. Since muscle is...

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Midlife is no joke. If you’re feeling like you’ve lost your way—overwhelmed, exhausted, or just plain stuck—you’re not alone. This season of life brings changes that can rock even the strongest among us. I’ve been there, and so have many of the women I coach.

Menopause and perimenopause come with their own unique challenges. The brain fog, the shifting hormones, the physical and emotional exhaustion—it can feel like a tidal wave you weren’t prepared for. Add in caregiving for parents, supporting your kids, managing relationships, and maybe even work, and it’s no wonder you’re feeling depleted.

I’m here to tell you it’s okay. It’s okay to feel this way, and it’s okay to start prioritizing yourself. Today, let’s talk about how you can create your own midlife survival kit—a practical and grace-filled way to take care of yourself during menopause.

Why Does Midlife Feel So Hard?

Hormones and Brain Cha...

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Why Trim Healthy Mama Works for Midlife Women

Hello, my friends! If you've been wondering how to navigate the challenges of menopause and weight loss, you’re in the right place. As a Trim Healthy Mama (THM) coach and someone who's walked this road myself, I’m here to guide you through what works, why it works, and how to make it sustainable for life.

The Struggles of Weight Loss in Menopause

Understanding the Midlife Body

Menopause changes everything, doesn’t it? From hormones to metabolism, our bodies in midlife are different, and so are their needs. Muscle loss and decreased metabolic rate make traditional weight loss methods less effective. That’s where the Trim Healthy Mama approach becomes a game-changer.

Common Pitfalls in Menopause Weight Loss

Many of us have tried the grapefruit diet, low-fat diets, or cutting carbs entirely. While these might give short-term results, they’re unsustainable and can even harm your health in the long run....

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Overcoming Midlife Weight Loss Challenges

If you’re a woman in your 50s or beyond, you know that staying healthy and maintaining a healthy weight can feel harder than ever. So many women I work with are hitting obstacles that never felt like challenges before. As we age, we’re not just talking about numbers on a scale—there’s also energy, resilience, and mindset.

In this post, I’ll walk you through insights and actionable steps from my "Age-Defying Fat Loss Formula." This program is a comprehensive roadmap designed specifically for women over 50.

Here, we'll cover the importance of mindset, specialized nutrition, and exercise tailored for the midlife woman.

Ready to start? Let’s dive in!

1. Why Midlife Weight Loss Feels Different (and Harder!)

In our 30s and early 40s, quick fixes and extreme diets could sometimes help shed a few pounds. But in midlife, this approach backfires. Stressing out your body with drastic measures affects your ho...