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Learning to Manage Your Mind When the Scale Doesn’t Make Sense

If you’ve ever stared at the scale and thought, “I’m doing everything right—why is it going up?!” this post is for you. As a Trim Healthy Coach, menopause fitness specialist, and midlife woman myself, I know firsthand how defeating it can feel when you’re doing all the right things and not seeing the results you expected.

But I also know this: your mindset might be the most important tool you’ve been overlooking.

This post will walk you through one of the most transformational tools I use with my clients (and myself!) to stay consistent, motivated, and aligned in midlife—even when progress feels slow or invisible.

Let’s talk about managing your mind when you can’t manage the scale.

Why Mindset Matters More Than the Number on the Scale

Here’s the deal: what you think shapes how you feel, and how you feel drives what you do (or don’t do). That’s why two women can see the exact same numb...

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A Midlife Mindset Shift That Gets You Unstuck

If you’ve been doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck… If you’ve looked in the mirror and thought, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore…” If your motivation is MIA and the scale isn’t budging no matter how “on plan” you stay…

You’re not alone—and you’re not doing anything wrong.

You’re in a season that requires a different kind of support. Not just for your body, but for your mind.

Today we’re tackling something that might be the missing piece in your weight loss journey.

Why You Feel Stuck in Perimenopause (And How to Get Unstuck)

Midlife isn’t just a shift in hormones—it’s a shift in identity, energy, and how your body responds to the things that used to work.

This is the exact season I found myself in years ago. The weight was creeping up, my energy was tanking, and even though I was trying to stay “on plan,” nothing seemed to be changing.

What finally helped?
It wasn’t another diet....

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Finding a Weight Loss Plan That Works in Midlife

If you've been struggling with unexplained weight gain, stubborn belly fat, and the frustration of doing everything right but still not seeing results, Barb's story is going to inspire you.

At 58 years old, Barb had been following Trim Healthy Mama (THM) for over a decade. It had completely transformed her health, helping her lose 40 pounds and keep it off for years. But when menopause hit, the weight started creeping back on. Sound familiar? No matter how closely she followed THM, she found herself gaining weight, feeling discouraged, and unsure of what to do next.

The Midlife Weight Gain Struggle

Barb's story is one I hear all the time from women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. You’ve been eating well, staying active, and following the principles of THM, but your body is no longer responding the way it used to. 

Here’s what Barb experienced:

• Sudden weight gain despite staying on plan
• Fatigue an...

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Tips to Avoid Holiday Weight Gain with Trim Healthy Eating

The holiday season is here, friends! It's a time filled with joy, family, and yes, delicious food. But for many midlife women, it can also be a season of stress, overindulgence, and regret when it comes to health and weight.

Today, let’s talk about how to navigate holiday indulgences, manage stress, and stay on track with your Trim Healthy Mama (THM) plan, all while giving yourself grace during this busy season.

Here’s your guide to an intentional, peaceful holiday season that keeps you feeling your best—physically and emotionally.

Set Your Holiday Intentions

Why Intentions Matter
The holiday season is not just another week or month—it’s a transitional time. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and all the events in between can throw off your usual routine. Recognizing this as a transitional period helps shift your mindset. Instead of thinking...

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Does Trim Healthy Mama Work in Menopause? A Mindset Tool for Midlife Women

Today, I’m diving into one of my favorite coaching tools, which is an absolute game-changer for women in menopause. This tool, when applied consistently, can help you show up differently in your Trim Healthy Mama journey and finally see those lasting results you’ve been after.

So, if you want something different, you’ve got to do something different. 

I know, easier said than done, right? 

That’s where this tool comes in. I first learned it from Brooke Castillo at The Life Coach School. It’s called “The Model,” and it has roots in teachings from various mentors, all beautifully refined into this one mindset tool.

This tool came into my life when I was knee-deep in perimenopause, dealing with a lot of heavy stuff—health crises, family challenges, the whole nine yards. This mindset model transformed not just my life, but also the way I coach my clients. It’s espec...

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Why Worry Doesn’t Help in Midlife: A Mindset Approach for Women Over 40

You know, I often find myself doing more life coaching than weight loss coaching.

Why?

Because weight loss is a mindset issue, knowing what and how to eat is crucial, but managing our minds to perform consistently is the key to long-term success.

Today, I’m not even talking about food; I want to share a personal experience that also translated into a coaching call. It’s about worry—something we all struggle with, especially in midlife. 

Understanding Worry in Midlife

During midlife, our brains and emotions undergo significant changes. What we once handled with ease may now be more challenging due to hormonal shifts.

As we approach menopause, our propensity to worry can increase, leading to what I call "mental loops."

These loops are repetitive thoughts that keep us stuck in worry, affecting our mental health and decision-making.

For instance, I’ve been deal...

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Embracing Negative Emotions for Midlife Wellness: A Game-Changer for Weight Loss After 40

Hello, my friends. Today, we're diving into a topic that might not sound fun but is truly life-changing: how to feel negative emotions. Yes, you heard that right! It may not be fun, but understanding and embracing our negative emotions can be a game-changer, especially when it comes to weight loss after 40.

Understanding Negative Emotions

Negative emotions are feelings that we often try to avoid or push away. They can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to control us. In midlife, managing these emotions becomes crucial, particularly for weight loss. Why? Because weight loss is a mindset game. Our sabotaging thoughts often keep us on that dieting roller coaster. When we can become aware of our thoughts and understand that they are driving our emotions, we gain the power to change.

The Connection Betw...

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How to Stop Eating Your Emotions

Understanding Emotional Eating

Emotional eating is when we use food to make ourselves feel better rather than to satisfy hunger. It’s something I've experienced personally and helped my clients overcome. Conquering emotional eating takes time and daily practice. It’s not about using a simple tool for a little bit and then you're cured; it’s about consistently reminding yourself of the truth.

My journey with emotional eating began when I noticed that sometimes I’d eat out of boredom or when it wasn’t meal time. I wasn’t even hungry! I'd catch myself mid-bite, thinking, "Wait, why am I eating these tortilla chips?" That’s when I began to become aware of my habits.

The Emotional Eating Cycle

The Temporary Relief of Emotional Eating

Emotional eating gives us temporary comfort. It’s that quick dopamine hit that feels great in the moment but doesn’t last. You might eat to feel better, but once the euphoria fades a...

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Hello friends and welcome to our journey towards a healthier, more balanced life! Today, I'm excited to share with you how I set myself up for success each day, week, and even month. As a busy midlife mama, juggling multiple roles as a business owner, mom, wife, sister, daughter, and friend, I know firsthand how overwhelming it can be to manage everything while trying to maintain healthy habits and lose weight.

When I first started this journey, my brain resisted the idea of planning and pre-deciding my days. It seemed like a lot of work, and I didn't want to think through everything I needed to do. But I've learned that taking time on the front end is the key to success. When I follow my planning routine, I feel more in control and less frantic. When I don't, chaos ensues.

With nine kids, four still at home, and two homeschooling, plus recently graduating my 17-year-old (yay!), life is busy....

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I want to share an inspiring story about one of my clients, Ruth, from my Feminine Freedom Pathway group. This Trim Healthy coaching program is designed for women looking to make lasting changes in their weight loss journey, focusing on hormones, mindset, and exercise. It’s amazing to see the transformations that happen, and I’m blessed and honored to be part of this journey with them.

As a coach, I don’t claim to have everything figured out. I’m deeply involved in the real, day-to-day challenges that my clients face, just like the ones I encounter myself. Ruth has been with my program for almost six months, striving to balance her weight loss efforts with her hormones, mindset, and exercise. It’s not easy to dial in all these aspects quickly, and many of you can relate to the frustration of trying to do everything at once.

One of my clients recently shared that after a year and a half, she f...