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If you’ve been following Trim Healthy Mama faithfully for years but hit menopause and suddenly feel like nothing is working anymore—you are not failing. Your hormones have shifted, your metabolism has slowed, and your body is simply in a new season. That means your Trim Healthy strategy has to shift, too.
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I know how frustrating this feels because I’ve been there. You’re doing all the “right” things, but the scale won’t budge, your belly feels fluffier, and your energy is tanking. Friend, it’s not about willpower—it’s about learning to partner with your hormones so Trim Healthy works for you again. Let’s unpack why Trim Healthy can stall in menopause and how you can fix it with confidence.
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In your 40s and 50s, estrogen starts to decline, progesterone drops, and testosterone often follows. These shifts trigger a cascade of changes in your body:
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If you're in perimenopause or menopause and life feels like it’s running you over lately, you're not alone. Between erratic work schedules, aging parents, college-aged kids, and trying to still feel like yourself in the middle of hormone chaos—it’s no wonder consistency feels out of reach.
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As a coach, I hear it all the time:
“My bedtime changes every night.”
“I didn’t pack my snack.”
“My hormones are all over, and I can’t focus.”
“Extended family responsibilities are stretching me thin.”
“Sometimes I just eat what everyone else is having because I’m too tired to do anything different.”
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Sound familiar?
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If that’s you, I want you to know: it’s not about perfection. It’s about making the best choices you can today—and doing it again tomorrow. Even if it’s messy. Even if it’s only 10 minutes. Even if you feel like life ke...
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Why You’re Gaining Belly Fat Even When You’re Eating Clean and Following THM
If you’re doing everything “right”—following the Trim Healthy Mama plan, skipping sugar, working out, eating clean—and you’re still gaining belly fat, this post is for you. I talk to midlife women every single day in my coaching programs, in my free Menopause Makeover community, and on discovery calls—and I hear the same frustrations on repeat.
“I feel like I’m gaining weight on air.”
“My doctor says my hormones are fine, but I can’t lose a pound.”
“I’m doing everything and the scale won’t move.”
If that’s you, take a deep breath, friend. You're not alone—and you're not broken. You're just believing a few common hormone lies that keep women stuck in midlife. Let's call them out and replace them with the truth that actually moves the needle on fat loss, energy, and healing—without burnout.
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Raise your hand if your sleep used to be... well, normal-ish.
You’d go to bed, sleep through (more or less), and wake up ready-ish to face the day. But now? Somewhere in your 40s, sleep flipped the script. You wake up at 3am wide-eyed, your brain is running a full-blown mental PowerPoint presentation, and you're wondering: “Is this just how it’s going to be from now on?”
Friend, I see you. I am you.
This week on the podcast, I had the absolute joy of welcoming my friend and colleague Shonda Palmer, founder of Shonda Palmer Wellness. She’s a national board-certified health and wellness coach, a mindfulness teacher, and a total powerhouse when it comes to helping women in midlife finally get the rest they need. She’s coached thousands of women using CBT-I (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia) — and she joined me to unpack why sleep becomes so elusive in perimenopau...
Let me ask you something, friend: have you ever looked at your walking shoes, your protein shake, or even just your meal prep plan and thought, "I just don’t have it in me"?
Yeah. Me too.
And I’m not just talking about being tired—I’m talking about that whole-body, brain-fogged, soul-deep lack of drive that shows up like an unwelcome guest in perimenopause and menopause. It’s not that you don’t care. It’s that your hormones have started rewriting the rules without telling you.
Even as a certified personal trainer, Trim Healthy Mama coach, and menopause fitness specialist, I wasn’t immune. My motivation fell off a cliff. And I had to learn how to keep showing up anyway. Not perfectly. But consistently. And most of all—with grace.
So today, I want to talk to you about why this happens, what’s really going on, and how to work with your body—not against it—in this new season.
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If you’re in midlife and feeling like your body is just not cooperating with your weight loss goals, your energy is tanked, your digestion is off, and your skin just isn’t glowing like it used to… I want you to know: it’s not all in your head.
Your liver might just be quietly crying out for some attention. Yep, that hard-working organ tucked under your ribs is doing a ton behind the scenes — especially during perimenopause and menopause — and it's high time we showed it some love.
This post is inspired by Episode 105 of the Menopause Makeover: Menopause Liver Detox: What You Need to Know. If you haven’t listened yet, definitely pop in your earbuds after this read.Â
But for now, let’s dig into what your liver actually does, why it matters so much for hormone balance and fat loss, and how you can begin to gently support it — starting today.
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If you’re a midlife woman struggling with weight loss, brain fog, and those rollercoaster hormones, grab your favorite sipper and settle in because you are not alone. Today’s post is a special one, and I can't wait for you to hear it.
I had the pleasure of chatting with my friend and fellow Trim Healthy Mama coach, KJ York. Her story is powerful, real, and full of hope. KJ’s journey from battling food addiction and hormone imbalance to finding freedom and purpose is one you need to hear. She opens up about her struggles, her faith, and the practical strategies that helped her overcome the roadblocks that so many of us face in midlife.
So if you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or just plain tired of trying to get it right—this post is for you. L...
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Navigating menopause can feel like an uphill battle, especially when those extra pounds start creeping on. But, there are some game-changing supplements that can really help you manage your weight during this season of life.Â
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Before we dive in, remember: I’m not a doctor, so it’s crucial to check with your healthcare provider before starting any new supplement regimen.
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Menopause often brings about unwanted weight gain, particularly around the belly. On average, women can expect to gain around 10 pounds during this time. So, why does this happen? It’s all about our changing hormones.
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As your estrogen levels decline, your body’s ability to metabolize glucose and maintain muscle mass takes a hit. This means your metabolism sl...
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Estrogen and progesterone are key players in our overall well-being. They influence how we feel, how we sleep, how we burn fat, and so much more. When these hormone levels start to fluctuate, especially during perimenopause and menopause, it can throw everything out of balance.
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You’ve probably heard a lot about insulin resistance lately. Insulin is our fat storage hormone. When our estrogen levels drop, it can cause our insulin levels to fluctuate, which can lead to insulin resistance. This is when our bodies don't use insulin efficiently, leading to fat storage and increased risk of pre-diabetes and diabetes.
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Leptin is another important hormone. It lives in our fat cells and sends signals to our brain that tell us when we're full. When leptin signaling is disrupted—often du...
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Navigating perimenopause can feel like a wild roller coaster ride, right?Â
The hot flashes, the mood swings, the sleepless nights—it can be a lot. Today, I want to chat about something that has been a total game-changer for me: bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT). I want to share with you how BHRT can bring some much-needed relief during perimenopause and why it’s worth considering.
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So, what exactly is perimenopause?Â
It’s that lovely transition period before menopause when our hormones start to go haywire. You might be feeling more anxious, dealing with bouts of depression, constantly exhausted, and not sleeping well. These symptoms can really mess with your daily life, and finding ways to manage them is super important.
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Bioidentical hormones are game-changing—they’re made to match the hormones ou...
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