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Why Midlife Feels Different (and What to Do About It)

If you’ve been eating healthy, lifting weights, and doing “all the things” — but still staring at that stubborn belly fat or feeling like your muscle tone is disappearing — you’re not alone, friend.

This season of life hits different. Once estrogen begins to decline, your body stops responding to food and exercise the same way it did in your 30s. The exact same meal that used to help you maintain muscle and a trim waistline now… doesn’t.

This is called anabolic resistance — your muscles simply need a stronger signal to grow. That’s why so many midlife women say, “I’m eating my protein, so why isn’t it working anymore?”

There’s a missing piece — and it’s a big one.

That missing piece is a muscle-building amino acid called leu...

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If you’ve been doing all the “right things”—eating healthy, moving your body, staying on plan—and still can’t lose that stubborn belly fat, I see you, friend. It’s one of the most common frustrations I hear from women in midlife:

“Kris, I’m exercising every day, but my body just isn’t responding anymore.”

The truth? It’s not that you’re not trying hard enough. It’s that your body has changed. The same workouts and routines that once worked in your 30s may now be keeping you stuck.

Let’s unpack why—and how you can start seeing results again, without living at the gym.

Why What Used to Work Doesn’t Work Anymore

When estrogen begins to decline in perimenopause and menopause, it affects everything from how your body stores fat to how efficiently it builds muscle.
Estrogen used to help regulate insulin and protect your muscle tissue. When it drops, your metabolism slows, and your body becomes less sensitive to insulin. Translation? You store ...

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We’ve all been there. You start strong on your Trim Healthy journey — you’ve got your protein prepped, your sippers ready, your fridge organized — and then life hits. Hormones shift, stress builds, and before you know it, you’ve fallen off the Trim Healthy train again.

Maybe it started with a few bites, licks, and tastes. Or maybe it was a full-on derailment that turned into weeks of off-plan choices. Either way, if you’re feeling frustrated and wondering how to get back on track, take a deep breath. You haven’t failed. You just need a plan, a little grace, and a mindset reset.

As your Trim Healthy coach and menopause fitness specialist, I’m here to help you find your footing again — without guilt, overwhelm, or starting from scratch.

The Real Reason You Struggle to Stay Consistent

Let’s get honest for a second: staying consistent isn’t about willpower or perfection. It’s about rhythm.

In midlife, your body and hormones are constantly sh...

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Ever wake up tired after a full night’s sleep? Or feel like you’re dragging yourself through the day on coffee and willpower?

I get it. I’ve been there. That “can’t keep my eyes open” feeling in the afternoon… the frustration of eating clean and still gaining belly fat… wondering why your once-reliable workouts now leave you sore and wiped out instead of strong and energized.

Here’s the thing: your hormones aren’t the enemy, but they are changing. And those changes affect everything from your sleep to your muscle recovery to how efficiently you burn fat.

But friend, this isn’t the end of your energy—it’s the beginning of understanding how to work with your body, not against it.

In this post, I’ll show you how to rebuild your strength, boost your energy, and reset your metabolism by supporting your hormones the way your midlife body needs.

Why Energy Plummets in Menopause

When your hormones shift in perimenopause and menopause, it’s li...

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If you’re a Trim Healthy Mama who’s hit midlife and can’t seem to get your energy—or your waistline—back on track, I see you.
Maybe you’ve been skipping your E meals because “carbs = weight gain,” right?
Well, not so fast.

In this post, we’re breaking down why your body actually needs those energizing, carb-anchored meals in perimenopause and menopause, how to build them the Trim Healthy way, and how to make meal planning easy, balanced, and totally stress-free.

Why Trim Healthy Meal Planning with Carbs Helps You Lose Weight in Midlife

We’ve been told for years that cutting carbs is the secret to weight loss. And yes—cutting out packaged, processed carbs helps. But whole-food, low-glycemic carbs are a completely different story.

During perimenopause and menopause, estrogen begins to decline, and that affects everything: your energy, your mood, your thyroid, and especially your blood sugar.
When your blood sugar becomes unstable, your cor...

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If you’ve ever thought, “Why do my workouts feel so much harder than they used to?”—you’re not imagining it. Midlife changes everything. The same meal planning and workouts that worked in your 30s don’t always cut it in your 40s and 50s.

Your hormones have shifted. Your stress resilience is lower. Your recovery takes longer. And if you’re still trying to lose weight by eating less or fasting through your workouts, you’re actually working against your body, not with it.

Let’s talk about how to fuel smarter. In this post, I’ll walk you through three keys to fueling your midlife workouts so you can build strength, balance hormones, and finally see results again—without exhaustion, deprivation, or guilt.

Why Fueling Changes in Midlife

In perimenopause and menopause, your body becomes less resilient to stress. What used to ...

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If you’re in midlife and feel like your hormones, weight, and energy are all out of whack, you’re not alone. I hear from so many women who say, “I don’t even feel like myself anymore.” Between hot flashes, brain fog, stubborn belly fat, and unpredictable moods, it’s easy to think your best days are behind you.

But friend, that’s not true. You can feel strong, clear-headed, and vibrant again. In fact—you can feel even better than before. The key is learning how to support your hormones with simple, practical tools that work in this season of life.

Today I’m sharing five powerful Trim Healthy-inspired strategies that will help you balance hormones, lose weight, and show up for your life with energy and confidence.

Tool #1: Build Every Meal on Protein + Plants

If you’ve followed Trim Healthy Mama for a while, you know that protein is the anchor of every meal. But in midlife, it becomes non-negotiable. Every meal should include at least ...

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If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “Where did she go?” — the woman with energy, motivation, and maybe even a little sparkle in her step — you’re not alone.

So many women I coach in perimenopause and menopause say the same thing: “I just don’t feel like myself anymore.” And you know what? I’ve been there too. In my mid-40s, I remember thinking, “Am I going crazy?” The brain fog, mood swings, fatigue, and weight gain felt like someone had swapped out my body and left me with one I didn’t recognize.

Here’s the truth: you’re not doing anything wrong. Your body is shifting. Your hormones are changing. And while it’s normal, it doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck.

In this post, I’m breaking down the 5 signs of hormone imbalance that could be draining your energy and stealing your joy — plus some hope-filled steps to start supporting your body with Trim Healthy Wisdom, strength training, and a whole lot of grace.

1. Hormonal Shi...

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The Frustration of “Doing Everything Right”

If you’re in perimenopause or menopause, you probably know the feeling. You’re following the Trim Healthy plan, you’re eating the recipes, you’re even getting your steps in—and yet the belly fat keeps creeping up. The scale doesn’t budge. Your energy dips, your clothes feel tighter, and you start asking yourself, what in the world is happening to my body?

This is exactly what my client Cindy was experiencing. She had been trying for years to make it all work on her own. She read the Trim Healthy books, bought the ingredients, and gave it her best effort. But in midlife, the puzzle pieces just didn’t fit the way they used to. She came to me saying, “I feel like I’m doing everything right, but my body isn’t cooperating.”

Friend, if that sounds like you, I want you to know—you’re not lazy, you’re not broken, and you’re not behind. What’s really keeping you from losing weight in menopause isn’t a lac...

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Why Cardio Isn’t the Queen Anymore

I grew up in the 80s and 90s with leg warmers, Jane Fonda, and step aerobics leading the fitness scene. Back then, cardio was the queen. We were taught that the more you sweat it out on the treadmill or in an aerobics class, the more calories you’d burn, and the more weight you’d lose.

But here’s the thing: in perimenopause and menopause, more cardio doesn’t equal more fat loss. In fact, it often backfires. Long sessions of running, cycling, or high-impact classes actually raise cortisol, your stress hormone. And when cortisol goes up, guess what else goes up? Belly fat.

That’s right—those endless cardio sessions that used to feel like the gold standard are now contributing to the very thing you want to get rid of.

This doesn’t mean cardio is bad or that you should never do it. But it’s no longer the star player. Midlife bodies need a smarter strategy—one that works with your hormones, not against them.