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The issue isn’t that your thyroid is “bad.”
It’s that it may not be optimized for midlife.
Most women are told their thyroid is fine based on a single lab value. But thyroid health is not one number—and in menopause, that narrow view misses a lot.
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Most conventional doctors are trained to look at TSH only. That’s not because they’re careless—it’s simply how they were trained.
But TSH is just a signal from your brain. Think of it like an alarm clock. Just because it’s ringing doesn’t mean you’re awake, energized, and functioning well.
TSH alone does not tell us:
This is why so many midlife women are told everything looks “fine” while their body is clearly struggling....
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Most women I talk to in midlife aren’t clueless about weight loss.
They’ve read the books. They’ve followed the plans. They know protein matters. They know movement matters.
But they’re confused.
They’ve been told a lot of things — and not all of them can be true at the same time.
They’ve been told to walk more… but also lift heavy.
To eat less… but not starve.
To do more cardio… but protect their hormones.
To strength train… but only after they lose the weight.
So what happens? Exercise becomes the first move every time.
“I’ll just start working out again.”
“I need to get moving before I focus on food.”
“If I can just be consistent with exercise, the weight will follow.”
That thinking makes sense — especially if it worked for you before.
But in midlife, that old order quietly stops working.
Not because exercise is bad. Not because strength training doesn’t matter. But because exercise alone can’t fix a body that doesn’t yet feel metabolic...
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If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “Why is my body doing this now?”—especially around your middle—I want you to take a breath with me before we go any further.
Because this season of weight loss isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s not about fixing yourself.
And it’s definitely not about proving your discipline.
Midlife weight loss feels different because your body is different—and that matters.
I see it every day in women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who are doing so many things “right.” You’re eating on plan. You’re trying to stay consistent. You’re moving your body. And yet… the belly fat lingers, energy feels unpredictable, and confidence takes a hit.
This isn’t failure.
It’s feedback.
Today I want to walk you through five truths about belly fat, hormones, and losing weight in midlife—not from a place of pressure, but from wisdom, understanding, and hope. This is about learning to work with your body instead of fighting it, and le...
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Have you ever stepped on the scale and thought, Why do I keep gaining weight?—even though you’re eating well, staying mostly on plan, prioritizing protein, and doing your best to move your body?
If you’re in perimenopause or menopause, you’re not imagining this struggle. And you’re definitely not alone.
One of the biggest shocks for women in midlife is realizing that weight loss no longer behaves the way it used to. What once felt predictable now feels messy, emotional, and discouraging—especially when belly fat shows up uninvited and the scale starts acting… well, wacky.
Today I want to talk to you honestly, coach-to-friend, about why you can’t trust the scale in menopause—and why that doesn’t mean you can’t lose belly fat or lose weight in this season of life.
Because you absolutely can.
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Back in the day—pre-perimenopause for many of us—weight loss often followed a pretty neat pattern. You’d lose a p...
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If you’re over 50 and wondering why belly fat seems to show up uninvited — even though you’re eating well, moving your body, and doing “all the right things” — I want you to take a deep breath with me for a moment.
Because this isn’t a discipline problem.
And it’s not because you suddenly lost your willpower.
And it’s definitely not because you’re failing.
What’s happening is that your body is changing — hormonally, metabolically, and neurologically — and the rules of fat loss have changed with it.
As a certified personal trainer, menopause fitness specialist, and Trim Healthy coach, I see this every single day in women I coach. Strong women. Faithful women. Consistent women who feel confused and frustrated because what used to work… just doesn’t anymore.
Today I want to walk you through five belly fat loss truths that reward consistency after 50 — not intensity, not restriction, not punishment — but steady, hormone-supportive consistency.
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If you’re reading this and feeling that familiar knot in your stomach—because the holidays (or a stressful season) didn’t go the way you hoped—I want you to take a deep breath with me for a moment.
Maybe the scale went up.
Maybe the belly fat feels more stubborn than ever.
Maybe you’re replaying the same old thoughts: I messed up. I should’ve done better. I feel behind again.
Friend, this message is for you.
As a Trim Healthy coach, personal trainer, and menopause fitness specialist—and as a woman who has walked this road herself—I want you to hear this clearly: this season does not define you, and it does not disqualify you from progress. What it can do, if we let it, is teach us how to reset with wisdom instead of shame.
And that’s exactly what we’re going to talk about today.
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One of the hardest parts of perimenopause and menopause is that everything feels amplifi...
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Ever wake up tired after a full night’s sleep? Or feel like you’re dragging yourself through the day on coffee and willpower?
I get it. I’ve been there. That “can’t keep my eyes open” feeling in the afternoon… the frustration of eating clean and still gaining belly fat… wondering why your once-reliable workouts now leave you sore and wiped out instead of strong and energized.
Here’s the thing: your hormones aren’t the enemy, but they are changing. And those changes affect everything from your sleep to your muscle recovery to how efficiently you burn fat.
But friend, this isn’t the end of your energy—it’s the beginning of understanding how to work with your body, not against it.
In this post, I’ll show you how to rebuild your strength, boost your energy, and reset your metabolism by supporting your hormones the way your midlife body needs.
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When your hormones shift in perimenopause and menopause, it’s li...
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I grew up in the 80s and 90s with leg warmers, Jane Fonda, and step aerobics leading the fitness scene. Back then, cardio was the queen. We were taught that the more you sweat it out on the treadmill or in an aerobics class, the more calories you’d burn, and the more weight you’d lose.
But here’s the thing: in perimenopause and menopause, more cardio doesn’t equal more fat loss. In fact, it often backfires. Long sessions of running, cycling, or high-impact classes actually raise cortisol, your stress hormone. And when cortisol goes up, guess what else goes up? Belly fat.
This doesn’t mean cardio is bad or that you should never do it. But it’s no longer the star player. Midlife bodies need a smarter strategy—one that works with your hormones, not against them.
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Let’s talk about something I hear all the time:
“I’ve tried intermittent fasting, I barely eat until 2 p.m., I’m working out… but I’m still gaining weight. What gives?”
Friend, if that’s you—I see you. You are not doing it wrong.
It’s just that fasting was never made for your midlife body in the first place.
In this post, I want to walk you through the real science behind intermittent fasting, why it may have worked for your husband but not for you, and what you can do instead to support your metabolism, hormones, and fat loss goals—without starving or stressing your body out.
I’m Coach Kris Honeycutt, your Trim Healthy Coach, personal trainer, and menopause fitness specialist. I’ve worked with hundreds of women who are navigating this midlife transition, and I want to help you understand why fasting often backfires—especially when hormones are shifting and your energy feels maxed out.
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The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Hitting Your Midlife Protein Goals
If you’ve ever muttered, “I know I need more protein, but I’m tired of dry chicken and complicated meal prep,” this one’s for you.
Because when you’re in perimenopause or menopause, juggling energy dips, hot flashes, and a metabolism that’s gone rogue, protein can feel like one more overwhelming task.
But here's the truth: getting enough protein is one of the simplest ways to support your hormones, burn belly fat, and feel full all day long—without obsessing or overhauling your entire life.
Let’s make protein easy, doable, and dare I say…lazy-girl approved.
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If you’ve been around here for a bit, you know I talk about protein a lot. And that’s because in midlife, protein is your secret weapon.
Here’s why...
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