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If you’ve ever looked into bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT) and thought, “There’s no way I can afford that every month,” you’re not alone. BHRT can absolutely be life-changing—I’ve been on it myself for years—but it’s simply not within reach for every woman. And that’s okay.

Whether you’re already using BHRT, considering it, or you’ve decided it’s not for you right now, there are still powerful, budget-friendly ways to support your hormones in perimenopause and menopause. In fact, the lifestyle choices we’re about to cover can help you feel better, boost energy, reduce belly fat, and improve mood—even without prescript...

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Why Fasting Isn’t the Fat Loss Fix for Midlife Women

Let’s talk about something I hear all the time:
“I’ve tried intermittent fasting, I barely eat until 2 p.m., I’m working out… but I’m still gaining weight. What gives?”

Friend, if that’s you—I see you. You are not doing it wrong.
It’s just that fasting was never made for your midlife body in the first place.

In this post, I want to walk you through the real science behind intermittent fasting, why it may have worked for your husband but not for you, and what you can do instead to support your metabolism, hormones, and fat loss goals—without starving or stressing your body out.

I’m Coach Kris Honeycutt, your Trim Healthy Coach, personal trainer, and menopause fitness specialist. I’ve worked with hundreds of women who are navigating this midlife transition, and I want to help you understand why fasting often backfires—especially when hormones are shifting and your energy feels maxed out.

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If you’ve been gaining weight in perimenopause—especially around your belly—even though you're eating healthy and trying to stay on plan… I want you to know: you are not crazy and you are not alone.

This season of life can feel like a curveball. What used to work just isn’t cutting it anymore.
You’re doing Trim Healthy Mama, watching your carbs, maybe even exercising more… but the scale? Stuck. Or worse, creeping up.

Let’s talk about why that’s happening—and most importantly, what you can do about it.

Perimenopause Changes the Rules

If it feels like your body hit the brakes on fat loss after 40, it’s not your imagination. Perimenopause brings big hormonal shifts—estrogen drops, cortisol climbs, insulin resistance creeps in, and your metabolism doesn’t hum along like it used to.

The good news?
With the right plan and a few strategic shifts, you can absolutely get your body back into a fat-burning rhythm—without punishing workouts or restr...

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Is Poor Sleep a Symptom of Menopause or Something More?

Let’s talk about something no one warned us about—waking up exhausted even after a full night's sleep.

If you're a woman in your 40s or 50s doing your best to stick with Trim Healthy Mama, lift weights, balance your blood sugar, and take care of your health, but you still wake up bone tired, I want you to know this:

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re in hormone transition.

And today, we’re going to unpack why you feel so drained—and what you can do to start reclaiming your energy, one habit at a time.

Why Am I So Tired All the Time Even When I Sleep?

This might sound familiar:

• “I’m getting 7 or 8 hours, but I wake up tired.”
  
• “I keep waking up between 1 and 3am, and my mind is racing.”
  
• “I can’t fall asleep, or I fall asleep and then I’m wide awake at 2am.”
  
  

These aren’t just annoyances—they’re signals. Your body is working overtime to manage hormone changes, cortisol ...

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Have You Been Striving in Your Weight Loss Journey?

Let’s just get honest, friend.

You’re eating on plan. You’re trying to move your body. You’re skipping sugar (most days). But that stubborn belly fat in menopause won’t budge. You keep thinking, “I should be further along by now.”

I see it all the time as a Trim Healthy coach for midlife women. And I’ve lived it myself. That’s why I had to share this with you—because I’ve discovered a whole new way to approach weight loss in perimenopause and menopause.

It’s not about pushing harder.
It’s about surrender.

Yep. That big ol’ faith word we like to use in church, but don’t always know how to apply when the scale won’t move or we’re crying over jeans that don’t fit.

This blog post is a heart-to-heart from one midlife woman to another. It’s what I wish someone would have told me sooner.

Why Striving Isn’t Serving You Anymore

In our younger years, striving often worked.
We could cut ca...

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Why You’re Waking Up at 3AM in Perimenopause (and What to Do About It)

Raise your hand if your sleep used to be... well, normal-ish.

You’d go to bed, sleep through (more or less), and wake up ready-ish to face the day. But now? Somewhere in your 40s, sleep flipped the script. You wake up at 3am wide-eyed, your brain is running a full-blown mental PowerPoint presentation, and you're wondering: “Is this just how it’s going to be from now on?”

Friend, I see you. I am you.

This week on the podcast, I had the absolute joy of welcoming my friend and colleague Shonda Palmer, founder of Shonda Palmer Wellness. She’s a national board-certified health and wellness coach, a mindfulness teacher, and a total powerhouse when it comes to helping women in midlife finally get the rest they need. She’s coached thousands of women using CBT-I (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia) — and she joined me to unpack why sleep becomes so elusive in perimenopau...

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Welcome to the Pivot

Hey friend. If you’ve been wondering what’s going on with your energy, your weight, your sleep, or your emotions lately—and you’re somewhere in your late 30s, 40s, or even early 50s—let me whisper something to you:

You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And you’re not alone.

What you’re feeling? It’s hormones. More specifically, it’s perimenopause—the body’s beautiful, frustrating, confusing transition into menopause. Most of us had no clue this was coming. No one pulled us aside and said, “Hey, heads up—your jeans might start getting tight, your sleep may tank, and that quick weight loss trick you used in your 20s? Yeah, it stops working.”

But here’s the good news: this season is not a problem. It’s an invitation.

And what you do now—how you choose to care for your changing body—can either set you up to thrive in your 50s and beyond or make it a whole lot harder to bounce back later.

The Real Signs of Hormonal Imb...

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Real-life fat loss strategies that work with your hormones, not against them

If you're in your 40s or 50s wondering why your belly fat won’t budge—despite eating well and even squeezing in workouts—girl, I see you.

You’re not lazy, you’re not doing it wrong, and you're definitely not broken. You're likely in perimenopause, and your body is shifting in ways that require a new approach to fat-burning—one that works with your hormones, not against them.

In this episode of The Menopause Makeover, I break down four simple, doable habits that can help turn on fat burning in midlife. These strategies aren’t about cutting carbs, killing yourself at the gym, or starving. They're about creating a metabolism that’s responsive and resilient in this season.

Let’s walk through each one—because you deserve to feel good in your body again.

What’s Really Blocking Fat Burn in Perimenopause?

Let’s get one thing straight: cutting calories and working ou...

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If you’re doing all the “right things” but your weight is creeping up anyway...

if your belly feels thicker every morning and you’re wondering why the scale won’t budge even though you’re eating clean and trying to move more...

welcome, friend.

You’re not just lazy. You’re not completely failing. And you’re definitely not alone in feeling stuck.

I see you: making time for workouts (when you barely have time to breathe), trying to eat whole foods, maybe even tracking macros or following THM...

and yet, your midsection feels softer, your energy is down, and your body just doesn’t respond like it used to.

You’re tired of the all-or-nothing mindset. You’re trying to stay motivated, but it’s hard when nothing seems to be working.

It’s not just you—and it’s not your fault. What used to work simply doesn’t anymore. That’s what we’re unpacking today.

My Midlife Wake-Up Call

I had my last baby at 44—nine kids total—and thought I’d bounce back ...

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Why Losing Weight in Perimenopause Feels Impossible—And What Actually Works

You’re Not Broken, You’re Not Lazy, and You’re Definitely Not Doomed

If you’ve ever stared at the scale and thought, “What in the world happened to me? I used to be able to drop 10 pounds in two weeks. Why won’t it budge now?”—I want you to know: you are absolutely not alone. And you’re definitely not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re not destined for a lifetime of tight jeans and stubborn belly fat.

You’ve just been following weight loss advice that wasn’t designed for your stage of life. Midlife, perimenopause, and menopause are a totally different ballgame. It’s time to stop beating yourself up and start understanding what your body is asking for. Let’s get into why your go-to plan isn’t working anymore—and what to do instead.

Why You Can’t Lose 10 Pounds in a Month Like You Used To

“My Old Tricks Just Don’t Work Anymore…”

Let’s be real: I’m right there with you. B...