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If you’re in your 40s, 50s, or 60s and noticing more softness around your midsection, I want to start by saying this clearly and lovingly: nothing about you is broken. You aren’t weak, you aren’t failing, and you haven’t “let yourself go.” The truth is far simpler — your body is changing, and changing bodies need new strategies.
Every week, women tell me the same story: “I’m walking daily, eating healthy, and doing everything I used to… but my belly fat won’t budge.” If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place. After coaching midlife women for years, I’ve seen three specific mistakes that quietly sabotage metabolism and belly fat loss. And once you understand what’s happening, you can finally work with your changing hormones instead of fighting them.
Let’s walk through these three mistakes together, and more importantly, let’s talk about what actually works.
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If you’ve been eating healthy, lifting weights, and doing “all the things” — but still staring at that stubborn belly fat or feeling like your muscle tone is disappearing — you’re not alone, friend.
This season of life hits different. Once estrogen begins to decline, your body stops responding to food and exercise the same way it did in your 30s. The exact same meal that used to help you maintain muscle and a trim waistline now… doesn’t.
This is called anabolic resistance — your muscles simply need a stronger signal to grow. That’s why so many midlife women say, “I’m eating my protein, so why isn’t it working anymore?”
There’s a missing piece — and it’s a big one.
That missing piece is a muscle-building amino acid called leu...
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The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Hitting Your Midlife Protein Goals
If you’ve ever muttered, “I know I need more protein, but I’m tired of dry chicken and complicated meal prep,” this one’s for you.
Because when you’re in perimenopause or menopause, juggling energy dips, hot flashes, and a metabolism that’s gone rogue, protein can feel like one more overwhelming task.
But here's the truth: getting enough protein is one of the simplest ways to support your hormones, burn belly fat, and feel full all day long—without obsessing or overhauling your entire life.
Let’s make protein easy, doable, and dare I say…lazy-girl approved.
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If you’ve been around here for a bit, you know I talk about protein a lot. And that’s because in midlife, protein is your secret weapon.
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So many women in midlife ask, "Can I still lose weight in menopause?" It can feel like your body has hit a roadblock with all the changes that happen during this season. Trust me, I've been there!Â
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While it may seem like metabolism comes to a screeching halt, the truth is we can absolutely support our bodies and lose weight.
Midlife weight loss might look slightly different than it did in your 20s or 30s, but it's achievable with the right approach. Let’s explore what happens to our metabolism during menopause and some practical steps you can take to support your body in this journey.
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First things first: our metabolism isn't supposed to drop dramatically until we’re about 60! But, thanks to lifestyle factors, stress, and especially hormone changes, many women experience a sluggish metabolism much earlier. E...
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Recently, I had the chance to hang out with a couple of younger friends—both in their late 30s and early 40s.Â
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As we relaxed by the lake, our conversation naturally drifted toward health and wellness.Â
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They started sharing how they felt puffy, and bloated, and were gaining weight, especially around their middle.Â
Energy levels were dipping, anxiety was creeping in, and they were experiencing aches and pains that seemed to come out of nowhere.Â
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Listening to them brought back memories of my own transition into this season of life.Â
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At 56, I've walked the path they're just beginning to navigate, and it's a journey that many of us are familiar with—welcome to the world of perimenopause.
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Perimenopause is a phase that often takes us by surprise.Â
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Today, I'm excited to discuss your questions about midlife health and wellness. It's all about us today, so grab a cup of tea and let's chat aboutÂ
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I love hearing from you and answering your questions and this episode is packed with hacks that can make a big difference in your midlife.
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Let's start with grounding. What exactly is it? Grounding, also known as earthing, is the practice of physically connecting with the earth by walking barefoot outside or using grounding mats or patches.Â
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When it comes to your weight loss journey and navigating menopause with the right hormones and exercise, I'm always thinking about what you need and want to hear. I listen to other podcasts or conversations so that I can glean valuable insights to share with you. My goal is to provide you with the keys to success, whether it's achieving weight loss or managing menopause symptoms.
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I often enjoy breaking down recent coaching experiences because they reflect how I coach and learn to make the best choices for my own health. The beauty of coaching lies in not just getting educated but in learning how to apply that knowledge effectively.Â
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By sharing my journey and those of my clients, I hope to offer practical tips that you can easily incorporate into your life.
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Today, I want to talk about a topic many of us grapple with: why is it so hard to lose weight in menopause. Let's dive into this challenge...
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Let’s unlock the puzzle and confusion hormones can cause and dive into the actionable strategies you need after 50 to support your hormones, fuel your fat-burning journey, and navigate the twists of menopause.Â
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This isn't just about weight loss; it's a common-sense approach to living your best second half-life.Â
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It's not just about what you eat; it's about what you avoid.Â
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White sugar, white flour, and seed oils can wreak havoc on your hormones. They trigger weight gain, mess with cholesterol, and throw blood sugar off balance. Choose nutrient-dense Whole Foods, with lots of plant options.Â
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When I hit menopause I felt like my body spiraled out of control. Everything fit differently, I lost my waist, and the jeans I grabbed out of my closet wouldn’t even button.
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Can you believe this happened to someone consistently eating the Trim Healthy plan and exercising?
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So, you might ask, if it can happen to you is there any hope for me?
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The answer is yes!
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Midlife weight gain and its stubbornness have less to do with eating perfectly and exercising daily than you might think.Â
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In fact, if you’re in your forties or above, there is a whole bunch of evidence pointing to your hormones being the root cause of extra fat around your belly than anything else.
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Weight gain in midlife is not inevitable.Â
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But what you’ve been doing to lose weight in your twenties and thirties won’t work anymore!
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Let’s learn how to stop the crazy menopausal symptoms so you can feel good in midlife.
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Today on the Honeycast I want to bring you good news.Â
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You can take a few very important steps and dial in the best ways to support your body. But first I want to acknowledge that the suffering is REAL. Hormonal changes and their accompanying symptoms are a part of life and are natural but it doesn’t mean you need to suffer or “get over it.”Â
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Even though your hormones are declining you can fix the symptoms that often come with those shifts. You can get the right nutrition and fuel, and you can exercise in a way that turns on fat-burning without tanking your adrenals.
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Not everything I’m sharing with you here today is coming directly from Trim Healthy Mama or Pearl & Serene. Hours of personal research and research for clients as well as special certifications (menopause fitness specialist & personal tr...
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