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Life often brings disappointments, and today, I'm sharing my personal experience, particularly in the context of my health journey and recent Masterclass training. Disappointment is a common companion in our pursuits, whether it's achieving goals or navigating the challenges of a weight loss and health journey.
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Disappointment is a universal part of life—a delicate balance between setbacks and successes, rejection and approval. We seldom discuss how to navigate and move through disappointment effectively. In my journey and with my clients, disappointment is a recurring theme, often rooted in unmet weight loss expectations.

I'm getting personal today, sharing my disappointment with my latest master class. The first one didn't go as planned, and the recent experience has left me introspective. My goal is to touch lives, guide women...
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Weight loss in midlife and beyond requires a new approach to see the results you are hoping for. Whether those results are less weight, fewer inches around your middle, more energy, or increased health and wellness, you must strap on some extra patience and set up your expectations more carefully than when you were younger.
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There is a good possibility that you have hurdles and life situations making it hard to take care of yourself. You might feel confused and discouraged about why your body gains weight over 40 even though you are actively trying to lose.
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Getting your expectations to align with your new reality is key to maintaining a positive commitment and engagement to meet your weight loss goals once you hit your 40s.
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I spent years reading and referring back to my "manual of expectations." I had a marriage, homeschooling, health, exercise, parenti...
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Hello friends, let's talk today about tips to stay motivated and on track in midlife.Â
This is a hot topic in my Facebook communities and conversations with many women.Â
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Why is it so hard to stay motivated?
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It's more than lacking self-discipline or laziness. In fact, the number one reason might be due to declining hormones. When you lose your estrogen, you often lose your get-up-and-go. You might also notice less energy in your mood and need more motivation. Lack of sleep might be slowing your energy level down, as well as a decrease in testosterone. Testosterone is your "get 'er done" hormone, while progesterone contributes to better mood and optimism, but when these hormones are low or non-existent, feeling motivated will be an issue.
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Or perhaps you're just feeling discouraged because losing weight after 50 takes longer and is more challenging than you expected, even if you're doing everything that is ...
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Do you know the #1 needle mover exercise for weight loss in midlife?Â
Are you ready to feel good again?
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A winning and abundant mindset is your key.Â
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Your mindset is like the railroad tracks laid down for the train to ride on and when you’ve got the railroad tracks you can just truck right along. Not without obstacles but you’ve got a path.
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Let’s talk today about a mindset of consistency over perfection with the Trim Healthy Mama plan.Â
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What mindset are you cultivating? An abundant mindset looks for possibility. It is a mindset that is pointed in the direction of believing and asking “What if this is possible?”
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What you believe, you will create. If you believe you have to be perfect or one hundred percent on the Trim Healthy plan all of the time then you m...
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Today, let's dive into the amazing process of transformation, particularly in the context of menopause.Â
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When you start on a transformation journey, whether it's a quest for weight loss, a newfound exercise routine, or the journey through menopause, our initial expectation often leans towards immediacy. We anticipate swift results, envisioning a rapid metamorphosis. However, real transformation is a patient artist, painting its masterpiece over time. It thrives on consistency, repetition, and the commitment to small, incremental improvements. This is where the magic lies and this is the long game we need to embrace.
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What does that mean? Transformation isn't merely about shedding physical weight; it's a shift in our habits, beliefs, and self...
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Menopause and midlife bring a unique set of challenges, and one of the most common and frustrating among them is the issue of weight gain. You're not alone in this struggle; many women like you are experiencing the same thing. But the good news is, I’m here to debunk some of the myths and provide you with effective solutions to help you navigate this transformative phase of life.
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One common misconception is that menopause happens suddenly. All of a sudden, everything changes, right? Well, not exactly. Menopause is more of a gradual process, stretching over several years. It typically begins with perimenopause, which can start as early as your late 30s. So, if you're thinking everything happened suddenly, think again.
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Menopause is not just a physical transformation...
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Midlife can bring about a host of challenges, but perhaps one of the most pervasive is the struggle with weight. With age, our metabolism slows down, and the routines we've stuck with for decades might not serve us anymore. But the journey to health isn’t just about the physical. It’s a mental challenge. If you’ve been lying to yourself about why can't lose weight or why Trim Healthy Mama won't work for you, now is the time to change your narrative. Let's dive into how you can cultivate a mindset for weight loss in midlife, one that is honest, encouraging, and transformative.
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Sometimes, the biggest lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves. These lies might include:
"I'm too old to change."
"This is just how my body is now."
"I've tried everything; nothing works for me."
“I just can’t lose weight.”...
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Are you navigating the twists and turns of menopause symptoms while trying to stay on track with your weight loss journey?Â
Believe me, you’re not alone.Â
So many women, as they approach midlife, struggle with hormonal changes, which can make weight loss seem even more challenging.Â
As a Trim Healthy Mama coach who focuses on helping women in menopause & perimenopause, I’m here to guide you through some tried-and-true techniques to face these challenges head-on.
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Remember the time when sticking to a health plan seemed effortless? And whatever you were doing, exercise or calorie counting, got you the results you were striving to get?
The thought, "it's just too hard right now," creates feelings of defeat.Â
But our mindset, and our thoughts, have a huge effect on our actions.Â
By reframing our thoughts ...
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Do you ever feel depressed, anxious, or guilty about food before or after eating?
Do you ever wish you could just make it through the day without having to analyze every little thing you eat and when/how you have to work out?
Do you want to avoid discouragement setting you back?
Are you ready to stop the excuses?
Then it’s time for you to get a weight loss mindset working for you. You see, most of us have a pre-established mindset full of unintentional thoughts. These thoughts are messages we get from ourselves, our family, and past experiences. Although it often feels impossible to just “think differently," sometimes making subtle changes in how you think is the KEY to skyrocketing your chances of success and giving you longer-lasting results.
So I'm going to give you seven keys to practice, to overcome self-sabotage.Â
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Key one: be a detective and a watcher of your thoughts. Becoming aware of...
What satisfies you?Â
When was the last time you paused to reflect and notice if you are satisfied or not?Â
If you’re like me, it’s been a while.Â
But I’m doing it now.Â
Satisfied is a word that reminds me of the children’s story about Goldilocks and the Three Bears. She goes about the bears’ home proclaiming something to be too much of this or not enough of that until she finds the one that is “just right”. That seems to be a good definition of satisfied - just right.Â
I love the verse in Matthew 14:20a which says, “And they all ate and were satisfied.”Â
Not too much or too little, but just right!Â
This is about one of the miraculous times that Jesus fed thousands of people when he only had 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish at his disposal.Â
He made sure that they had enough to satisfy their hunger.Â
They didn’t lack and they didn’t dip into gluttony. And what about Jesus? Did he eat too? The Bible doesn’t give us that information. It only says that he took the food, looked up to h...
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