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Have you ever stepped on the scale and thought, Why do I keep gaining weight?—even though you’re eating well, staying mostly on plan, prioritizing protein, and doing your best to move your body?

If you’re in perimenopause or menopause, you’re not imagining this struggle. And you’re definitely not alone.

One of the biggest shocks for women in midlife is realizing that weight loss no longer behaves the way it used to. What once felt predictable now feels messy, emotional, and discouraging—especially when belly fat shows up uninvited and the scale starts acting… well, wacky.

Today I want to talk to you honestly, coach-to-friend, about why you can’t trust the scale in menopause—and why that doesn’t mean you can’t lose belly fat or lose weight in this season of life.

Because you absolutely can.

When Weight Loss Stops Being Linear

Back in the day—pre-perimenopause for many of us—weight loss often followed a pretty neat pattern. You’d lose a p...

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If you’re over 50 and wondering why belly fat seems to show up uninvited — even though you’re eating well, moving your body, and doing “all the right things” — I want you to take a deep breath with me for a moment.

Because this isn’t a discipline problem.
And it’s not because you suddenly lost your willpower.
And it’s definitely not because you’re failing.

What’s happening is that your body is changing — hormonally, metabolically, and neurologically — and the rules of fat loss have changed with it.

As a certified personal trainer, menopause fitness specialist, and Trim Healthy coach, I see this every single day in women I coach. Strong women. Faithful women. Consistent women who feel confused and frustrated because what used to work… just doesn’t anymore.

Today I want to walk you through five belly fat loss truths that reward consistency after 50 — not intensity, not restriction, not punishment — but steady, hormone-supportive consistency.

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If you’re reading this and feeling that familiar knot in your stomach—because the holidays (or a stressful season) didn’t go the way you hoped—I want you to take a deep breath with me for a moment.

Maybe the scale went up.
Maybe the belly fat feels more stubborn than ever.
Maybe you’re replaying the same old thoughts: I messed up. I should’ve done better. I feel behind again.

Friend, this message is for you.

As a Trim Healthy coach, personal trainer, and menopause fitness specialist—and as a woman who has walked this road herself—I want you to hear this clearly: this season does not define you, and it does not disqualify you from progress. What it can do, if we let it, is teach us how to reset with wisdom instead of shame.

And that’s exactly what we’re going to talk about today.

Why Belly Fat Feels Louder in Midlife (Especially After the Holidays)

One of the hardest parts of perimenopause and menopause is that everything feels amplifi...

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Ever wake up tired after a full night’s sleep? Or feel like you’re dragging yourself through the day on coffee and willpower?

I get it. I’ve been there. That “can’t keep my eyes open” feeling in the afternoon… the frustration of eating clean and still gaining belly fat… wondering why your once-reliable workouts now leave you sore and wiped out instead of strong and energized.

Here’s the thing: your hormones aren’t the enemy, but they are changing. And those changes affect everything from your sleep to your muscle recovery to how efficiently you burn fat.

But friend, this isn’t the end of your energy—it’s the beginning of understanding how to work with your body, not against it.

In this post, I’ll show you how to rebuild your strength, boost your energy, and reset your metabolism by supporting your hormones the way your midlife body needs.

Why Energy Plummets in Menopause

When your hormones shift in perimenopause and menopause, it’s li...

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Why Cardio Isn’t the Queen Anymore

I grew up in the 80s and 90s with leg warmers, Jane Fonda, and step aerobics leading the fitness scene. Back then, cardio was the queen. We were taught that the more you sweat it out on the treadmill or in an aerobics class, the more calories you’d burn, and the more weight you’d lose.

But here’s the thing: in perimenopause and menopause, more cardio doesn’t equal more fat loss. In fact, it often backfires. Long sessions of running, cycling, or high-impact classes actually raise cortisol, your stress hormone. And when cortisol goes up, guess what else goes up? Belly fat.

That’s right—those endless cardio sessions that used to feel like the gold standard are now contributing to the very thing you want to get rid of.

This doesn’t mean cardio is bad or that you should never do it. But it’s no longer the star player. Midlife bodies need a smarter strategy—one that works with your hormones, not against them.

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Why Fasting Isn’t the Fat Loss Fix for Midlife Women

Let’s talk about something I hear all the time:
“I’ve tried intermittent fasting, I barely eat until 2 p.m., I’m working out… but I’m still gaining weight. What gives?”

Friend, if that’s you—I see you. You are not doing it wrong.
It’s just that fasting was never made for your midlife body in the first place.

In this post, I want to walk you through the real science behind intermittent fasting, why it may have worked for your husband but not for you, and what you can do instead to support your metabolism, hormones, and fat loss goals—without starving or stressing your body out.

I’m Coach Kris Honeycutt, your Trim Healthy Coach, personal trainer, and menopause fitness specialist. I’ve worked with hundreds of women who are navigating this midlife transition, and I want to help you understand why fasting often backfires—especially when hormones are shifting and your energy feels maxed out.

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The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Hitting Your Midlife Protein Goals

If you’ve ever muttered, “I know I need more protein, but I’m tired of dry chicken and complicated meal prep,” this one’s for you.

Because when you’re in perimenopause or menopause, juggling energy dips, hot flashes, and a metabolism that’s gone rogue, protein can feel like one more overwhelming task.

But here's the truth: getting enough protein is one of the simplest ways to support your hormones, burn belly fat, and feel full all day long—without obsessing or overhauling your entire life.

Let’s make protein easy, doable, and dare I say…lazy-girl approved.

Why Protein Matters So Much in Midlife

If you’ve been around here for a bit, you know I talk about protein a lot. And that’s because in midlife, protein is your secret weapon.

Here’s why...

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Strength training in your 40s, 50s, and beyond isn’t about chasing soreness or trying to keep up with some influencer’s 7-day shred. It’s about training smarter—so you can burn fat, build muscle, and feel good in your body again without wrecking your hormones in the process.

If you’ve been wondering why your old workouts aren’t working anymore or why you feel more drained than energized after exercise, you’re not alone. Midlife bodies don’t respond the same way they used to—and that’s not a bad thing. It just means we need to shift how we move, how we recover, and how we fuel.

Let’s break down exactly how to strength train for fat loss in menopause and perimenopause—without the burnout.

Why Strength Training Is the #1 Belly Fat Loss Exercise in Menopause

Let me say it loud and clear: strength training is your best friend after 40.

You can cardio yourself to death and still not budge the scale—or worse, see it creep up. Why? Because yo...

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Ladies, let’s be honest.

Meal prep sounds great in theory. But by the time Sunday night rolls around, you're exhausted, brain-fried, and the last thing you want to do is chop a pile of vegetables while your to-do list stares you down. And yet, you know that if you don’t prep, your Trim Healthy Mama plan tends to derail by Wednesday, and you find yourself grabbing whatever is easy. Sound familiar?

If you're a busy midlife mama trying to burn fat, lose weight, and balance hormones, meal prep can feel like one more mountain you don’t want to climb. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Today, I'm breaking down how you can meal prep in a way that actually works for your real life, your real energy levels, and your real hormones.

Why Meal Prep Feels So Hard in Midlife

First, let’s just name it: meal prep feels overwhelming because your life is already full. And when you hit perimenopause or menopause, your brain doesn’t always have the same b...

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Hey friend, let’s talk. If you’re feeling like your body has suddenly switched the rulebook on you—like the things that used to work for weight loss just aren’t cutting it anymore—you’re not imagining things. Midlife hits, and suddenly, that stubborn belly fat won’t budge, your metabolism feels like it’s moving through molasses, and muscle loss seems to be happening overnight. What gives?!

I see this all the time with the women I coach, and I want you to know: you are not broken, and you are not stuck. 

Your body is just speaking a different language now, and I’m here to help you decode it. We’re going to dive deep into what’s actually happening in your body and—more importantly—how to turn fat-burning back ON. 

Why Losing Weight After 40 Feels Harder

There’s a reason why weight loss isn’t as easy as it used to be. It comes down to hormones, muscle loss, and metabolism shifts. 

Here’s what’s going on:

• Muscle loss accelerates after 30 and plu...